What is it

What is it in the modern civilization?
That causes people to be so angry, verbally abusive aggressive uncompromising.
That causes students:
to show up at school but dont want to go to class...
to go to class but do nothing but disrupt others
to throw brand new text books out the windows os set them on fire in the school
to demand that they pass and cry foul when they dont.
That causes people to refer to women as b...... and h...
To keep calling for reparations for slavery yet continue to refer to each other
as n......
What is it in this modern civilisation:
where long term friendships and relationships end shortly after arrival at the airport.
Where married folks land and soon become single.
Where relatives/ friends kick you out after one week.
Where people can walk into a church and shoot the pastor and worshippers.
Where people order food for delivery and then kill the delivery man.

When we want to condemn people who do us harm ,but want others to slap the hand of our citizens who harm to them.

What is it...